Grace means their future is more important to you than their past.

 If one considers the purpose and condemnation of the LAW, then one is focused mostly on a person's past. But if one is in love with someone, one is drawn to think and ponder on, what there are going to do and where they  are going to. Their future is more important to you than their past.

HE wont allow you to remain with your distressed ability to love

 HE wont allow you to remain with a distressed ability to love: but HE will  bring you out of sin, and the burdens of sin. Healing your capacity to love. For HIM and for others you have to love. HE is THE WORD OF GOD, that is JESUS, who bore this on HIS Cross.

HIS forgiveness V.S. HIM paying for your sins

Forgiveness does not excuse you from being subject to the LAW 

JESUS CHRIST paying for your sins, delivers you from being in bondage to, and a hostage to the LAW

You can depend on someone's love.

You can depend on someone's love.

That is necessary for a good relationship.

But one should not find oneself in a bondage because of it.

The purpose of this universe is to find GOD a friend - man

 GOD can be a your friend. How? Because HE can.

You can be GOD'S friend. How? Because HE can be your friend

GOD'S dreams for this world

JESUS CHRIST is GOD'S ability to reach Man and redeem Man. By him was the world made.

GOD is GOD'S ability to be a friend to anyone. We are made in HIS image.

THE HOLY SPIRIT is the way and reality fulling GOD'S dreams. 

Everything is made from, and follows HIS NATURE.

HE is  SPIRIT and communicates to your spirit. Like a sixth sense you can commune with HIM.

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 With the 12 tribes of Israel we hear of the concept of "GOD'S Chosen".

And for the 7 Churches we hear of the concept of "Called out by JESUS and sanctified by him".