A persons unique way they love is part of their identity, and should be unique

 A persons unique way they love i.e. their capacity to love someone they love, is part of their IDENTITY, of who they are, what make them unique. And healing someones unique way they love, is the way to their brighter future. Respecting someones capacity to love is starting that process : helping them heal and exercise their unique way they love is completing this event and makes for a brighter future for everyone.