THE NATURE OF MALE
AND FEMALE LOVE AND HOW THEY BOND TO EACH OTHER.
The first part of the
nature of male love.
Eph 5:22 Wives,
submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
Eph 5:23 For the
husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and
he is the saviour of the body.
Eph 5:24 Therefore as
the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own
husbands in everything.
Eph 5:25 Husbands,
love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Joh 15:11 These
things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and [that] your
joy might be full.
The first part of the
nature of male love is to make her full of joy, or to make her joy full. Men
are more likely than women to seek out fun. They are to give excitement and
joy. Naturally they would instinctively seek this out. Great things are hard to
come by. Therefore, men are designed to want to accept challenges, and give fun
and excitement, to make her full of joy and make her joy full. They take great
risk. They are managers of risk, while women are more caring. She would seek to
protect him. He can use his stable and strong nature to make her full of joy
and make her joy full, to bond together as one flesh.
When she comes to
you, she gets strength and stability: when you go to her, she gets something
new and exciting.
Here is the second
part of the nature of male love.
Eph 5:26 That he
might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
The second part of
the nature of male love is to sanctify her or build her. He listens to her. Not
just to hear her to make her full of joy, and to make her joy full: but to hear
her thoughts and emotions, and encourage her and build her up with his words.
You sanctify her with your words so she will be better at doing what she does.
Men are proactive: -
changing everything around to suit their plans. Women are reactive: - going
with the flow reacting to things as they come along. Women all need a positive
proactive sanctifier: - to help anchor their emotions, and keep them positive,
so they can make good decisions. Women often based their decisions by reacting
to things as they come. While this is a comfortable and stress-free approach to
life. They can be influenced gently and gradually, even to make decisions that
will harm her eventually (When brought to the emotional state, where she will
make such decisions). Having a proactive sanctifier enables her to deal with
her constantly changing emotions.
When she reacts to
someone who is: proactive; emotionally strong; consistent. She embraces his
emotions. She hears his stability and she is encouraged. She hears his strength
and she has hope. She then has the same emotional state and has the same
emotional strength, and starts thinking like him. She will embrace his ways. He
would have overcome her negative emotions and have brought her emotions to be
more like his. She will not be easily influenced against him or base her
decisions on negative emotions she had gotten from reacting to a negative
environment. He listens to her thoughts and emotions, and whether positive or
negative, sanctifies and builds her. She will then make decisions from both a
proactive and a reactive position. She will have two persons in one body making
safe decisions. She finds safety in his ways.
We are now going to
look at the third part.
Eph 5:27 That he
might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or
any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
The third part of the
nature male love is to heal her, or restore her. Wherever she is, you can bring
her to where you are. When she is hurt, he can heal her, and make her forget
the pain. He can bring her to a place where she is so much better than before,
that she has forgotten the pain and be able to love again.
Joh 2:2 And both
Jesus was called, and his disciples, to the marriage.
Joh 2:3 And when they
wanted wine, the mother of Jesus saith unto him, They have no wine.
Joh 2:4 Jesus saith
unto her, Woman, what have I to do with thee? mine hour is not yet come.
Joh 2:5 His mother
saith unto the servants, Whatsoever he saith unto you, do [it].
Joh 2:6 And there
were set there six waterpots of stone, after the manner of the purifying of the
Jews, containing two or three firkins apiece.
Joh 2:7 Jesus saith
unto them, Fill the waterpots with water. And they filled them up to the brim.
Joh 2:8 And he saith
unto them, Draw out now, and bear unto the governor of the feast. And they bare
[it].
Joh 2:9 When the
ruler of the feast had tasted the water that was made wine, and knew not whence
it was: (but the servants which drew the water knew;) the governor of the feast
called the bridegroom,
Joh 2:10 And saith
unto him, Every man at the beginning doth set forth good wine; and when men
have well drunk, then that which is worse: [but] thou hast kept the good wine
until now.
Joh 2:11 This
beginning of miracles did Jesus in Cana of Galilee, and manifested forth his
glory; and his disciples believed on him.
You heal her and
restore to the point where she is so happy: she has forgotten all the hate.
hurt and unforgiving her life.
The nature of man's
love to his wife: - To make her full of joy or make her joy full; sanctify her
or build her; heal her or restore her, to bond together as one flesh.
Song of Solomon 1:3 Because of the savour of thy good ointments thy name is as ointment poured forth, therefore do the virgins love thee.
Men who love purely and with a good heart is recognized by children, and by her, and even their pheromones is pleasant and attractive, and she recognizes that and loves that.
Let’s look at the
nature of female love.
Here is the first
part.
Pro 31:10 Who can
find a virtuous woman? for her price [is] far above rubies.
Pro 31:11 The heart
of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of
spoil.
Pro 31:12 She will do
him good and not evil all the days of her life.
Pro 31:13 She seeketh
wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
Pro 31:14 She is like
the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
Pro 31:15 She riseth
also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to
her maidens.
She loves him and
comforts or sustains him. Men are more prone to stress than women. They are
proactive, making plans from the time they are born. They try to change
everything around to suit their plans. This will bring a lot of stress. They
will burn out trying to love. By GOD’s grace we have women to help men through
this. She can comfort or sustain him. He can run at a slower pace but better
and accomplish more, and last longer. She can use her beauty and delightfulness
to comfort and encourage him, to bond together as one flesh. He will be healthy
and last a long time.
Now let’s look at the
second part of the nature of female love.
Pro 31:16 She
considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a
vineyard.
Pro 31:17 She girdeth
her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
Pro 31:18 She
perceiveth that her merchandise [is] good: her candle goeth not out by night.
Pro 31:19 She layeth
her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
Pro 31:20 She
stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the
needy.
She nourishes or
strengthens him. She gives him the strength to continue loving her and causes
him to enter into rest. She gets full of joy and enters into rest. They both
enter into rest in each other, and he can continue loving her.
Here is the third
part of the nature of female love.
Pro 31:21 She is not
afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household [are] clothed with
scarlet.
Pro 31:22 She maketh
herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing [is] silk and purple.
Pro 31:23 Her husband
is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
Pro 31:24 She maketh
fine linen, and selleth [it]; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
She protects or
guides him. He can suffer many ailments and injuries in his life. She protects
him from being harmed by outside forces: and guides him away from things that
could cause him harm. She wants him to be well. He is encouraged.
Contrast this with
the above male nature: - A father’s love gives you strength: A mother’s love
gives you courage.
When a couple loves
each other. He makes her full of joy and makes her joy full, with his stability
and strength: she comforts and sustains him with her beauty and delightfulness.
The nature of woman's
love to her husband: - To comfort or sustain him; nourish or strengthen him;
protect or guide him, to bond together as one flesh.
666 means complete
without GOD, Man has three parts to the way he loves with two sections each.
Woman has three parts to the way she loves with two sections each. Bonded
together makes them have six parts, with twelve sections. 12 means GOD’S chosen
and GOD’S authority to make the place prosper. 777 means perfect in CHRIST. Her
is CHRIST makes 7. Him in CHRIST makes 7. Together in JESUS CHRIST makes 7. GOD’S
new authority. We worship HIM, with our capacity to love and help others
believe in HIS LOVE towards them. The new couple is GOD’S authority to change
and heal the place.
Male bonding covered
by the female’s love: Female bonding covered by the male's love.
You like what is like
you and is attracted to what is opposite. He is attracted her ability to
comfort or encourage him; nourish or strengthen him; protect or guide him, to
bond together as one flesh. She is attracted to his ability make her full of
joy or make her joy full; sanctify her or build her; heal her or restore her,
to bond together as one flesh.
Female bond by
talking with someone: Men by accomplishing some task together. For the couple
to bond together: - They have to bond both female and male ways. She has to
communicate her thoughts and emotions; and he has to listen for opportunities
to sanctify or build her. He has too set out some task for them to accomplish
together; and she has to look for opportunities to nourish or strength him.
He learns of her this
way and loves her, and they bond. She learns of her this way and loves him, and
they bond. This is how male and female bond to be one flesh both mentally and
spiritually.
He has to make her
full of joy or make her joy full; sanctify her or build her; heal her or
restore her, to bond together as one flesh: To make her able to comfort or
encourage him; nourish or strengthen him; protect or guide him, to bond
together as one flesh.
She has to comfort or
encourage him; nourish or strengthen him; protect or guide him, to bond
together as one flesh: To make him able make her full of joy or make her joy
full; sanctify her or build her; heal her or restore her, to bond together as
one flesh.
Eph 5:28 So ought men
to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth
himself.
Eph 5:29 For no man
ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the
Lord the church:
Eph 5:33 Nevertheless
let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the
wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.
1Pe 3:1 Likewise, ye
wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word,
they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
1Pe 3:2 While they behold
your chaste conversation [coupled] with fear.
1Pe 3:3 Whose
adorning let it not be that outward [adorning] of plaiting the hair, and of
wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
1Pe 3:4 But [let it
be] the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the
ornament] of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of GOD of great
price.
1Pe 3:7 Likewise, ye
husbands, dwell with [them] according to knowledge, giving honour unto the
wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of
life; that your prayers be not hindered.
If you hate yourself,
you will hate everyone: because of your fears. Fear will then cause you to lash
out in anger, even to weaker ones than you. And cause you to harm even the ones
you love. But if you love her, she will comfort and sustain you. She can
overcome the fears in you. She is the one who can bring courage out of you, if
you let her love you enough. And she wants to.
A father's love
builds you to strengthen you to face your fears: A mother's love comforts you
to encourage you to face you fears. While you were a child your mother’s love
gave you courage. She can surprise and overcome your mood, creating an
Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR), with brief notions of comfort that
can shock your senses and powerfully grab your attention from the direction you
are going. She can quell your spirit and help you change directions easier, and
thus your mood, when changes are necessary. She can comfort you until you are
encouraged. Now that you are a man it is up to your wife to give you the
courage you need as she comforts you. Not your father or mother anymore.
She is reactive. When
you love her, she would react to your love and love you to nourish or
strengthen you. She will guide you, if you let her, and you will both enter
into rest. She can comfort you and sustain you. This gently way of loving you
will gradually bring you to joy and happiness in her arms. Her gentleness can
turn around you or slow you down. She can quench your anger, feed your hunger,
and overcome your fears: to give you life so you can live. Her comforting love
can tame your unquenchable and unstoppable love: and you enter into rest in her
arms.
You know her. The
nature of her love which makes her subdue to your authority also make her
vulnerable. She is designed to react to you and be flexible to merge herself
you suit your needs and how you love her. The nature of her love helps her to
love you: but makes her vulnerable, to be influenced, to carry her emotions
down a negative path. And from that emotional state, will make decisions that
will harm her.
You have to sanctify
her and build her to bring her emotions to healthy and good state of joy. From
there she will make good decisions. This positive constant influence brings
stability in her life: - she gets emotionally stable and stronger. She makes
decisions from being both emotionally strong and reactive.
Let’s look at how
this affects their eating habits.
She will choose her food based on how she feels. This way she encourages herself as well as her family with her food. Sometimes you need a hug to strengthen and encourage you in the morning; Or something to encourage and energize you in the evening; Or a meal to make you healed and well after work; Or a refreshing and celebrating experience at night. Essentially, the hug one needs can be achieved with her food, she desires to eat and share with you.
Song of Solomon 1:2 Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.
Song of Solomon 1:3 Because of the savour of thy good ointments thy name is as ointment poured forth, therefore do the virgins love thee.
When he makes her emotions positive. She will choose food from these emotions that will taste how she feels. Then, when the whole family sits down to have diner. Her mood will transfer to everyone, and the whole family will be influenced to have the same positive emotions. Also, their diet will be constantly changing but always good. “Something old, something new…” but good. Thus, it is not only about healthy diets, but about opportunities to bond, and cultures to experience together as an act of loving to bond together. She can use his love to improve her mood, then communicate her mood to everyone. Bringing them with her food and pheromones to her positive mood.
Song of Solomon 1:12 While the king sitteth at his table, my spikenard sendeth forth the smell thereof.
Her pheromones do and will change causing a positive effect on all around her that inhales her pheromones and respond to her mood, subconsciously.
Pro 31:25 Strength
and honour [are] her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
Pro 31:26 She openeth
her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue [is] the law of kindness.
Pro 31:27 She looketh
well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Pro 31:28 Her
children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband [also], and he praiseth
her.
Pro 31:29 Many
daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
Pro 31:30 Favour [is]
deceitful, and beauty [is] vain: [but] a woman [that] feareth the LORD, she
shall be praised.
Pro 31:31 Give her of
the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
She is in a state of
joy, because of successful loving him, and he is in a state of rest. She arises
and makes sure everything is in the right place and ready for her when she
needs to love him again. When she sees this, she will be full of joy and even
sing.
She has his stability and strength and can be wise and kind now. She has an overwhelming desire to please her loved ones. Because she guides them: she stays on the right tract also. She will sacrifice herself to make sure they are well. Even putting away things that she liked, that will harm them.
She has entered into his rest and his joyfulness he provides. She has been well loved and her love has been well received.
Men’s hearts are after their spouse: Women’s hearts are after having a good relationship with their spouse.
Song of Solomon 1:7 Tell me, O thou whom my soul loveth, where thou feedest, where thou makest thy flock to rest at noon: for why should I be as one that turneth aside by the flocks of thy companions?
Song of Solomon 1:8 If thou know not, O thou fairest among women, go thy way forth by the footsteps of the flock, and feed thy kids beside the shepherds' tents.
Song of Solomon 6:2 My beloved is gone down into his garden, to the beds of spices, to feed in the gardens, and to gather lilies.
Song of Solomon 65 Turn away thine eyes from me, for they have overcome me: thy hair is as a flock of goats that appear from Gilead.
Song of Solomon 66 Thy teeth are as a flock of sheep which go up from the washing, whereof every one beareth twins, and there is not one barren among them.
Song of Solomon 6:3 I am my beloved's, and my beloved is mine: he feedeth among the lilies.
She inquires and gets his answer as where she stands. He answers he loves her and wants her to be with him together. And is in love with her smile and her personality he see through her eyes and want to be together.
Song of Solomon 1:2 Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.
Song of Solomon 1:3 Because of the savour of thy good ointments thy name is as ointment poured forth, therefore do the virgins love thee.
Song of Solomon 1:4 Draw me, we will run after thee: the king hath brought me into his chambers: we will be glad and rejoice in thee, we will remember thy love more than wine: the upright love thee.
Song of Solomon 1:14 O my dove, that art in the clefts of the rock, in the secret places of the stairs, let me see thy countenance, let me hear thy voice; for sweet is thy voice, and thy countenance is comely.
Song of Solomon 1:15 Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines: for our vines have tender grapes.
Song of Solomon 1:16 My beloved is mine, and I am his: he feedeth among the lilies.
He is known about for his character, and is good with children, as his ability to love is strong, and she is attracted by that, and is in love with him. She is attracted to his love, and is captivated be his safety. And is drawn to him, and wants to enjoy that. But it is the small things we ignore that harms co-operation and growth and development of a relationship. Therefore she is asked by him to engage in a task of getting rid of those things that harm their relationship, so they will be together.
She can well love
anyone one she comes into contact with.
GOD’S chosen way of
ruling is the couple. Perfect love for anyone to receive in love.
To establish a
covenant between the two of you, want to preserve your relationship forever.
Gen 2:24 Therefore
shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife:
and they shall be one flesh.
Son 8:6 Set me as a
seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love [is] strong as death;
jealousy [is] cruel as the grave: the coals thereof [are] coals of fire, [which
hath a] most vehement flame.
Son 8:7 Many waters
cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if [a] man would give all
the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.
After you have loved
each other and bonded together as one flesh
You seek to establish
a covenant with her to preserve your relationship forever.
You promise her, “You
will always show her grace, to prevent you from doing anything to offend each
other and to draw you closer to each other”.
You promise her, “You
will always show her ability to love you, grace, to prevent you from doing
anything to offend each other and to draw you closer to each other”.
You promise her you
will always reward her for being good, or encourage her to continue being good,
whether she deserves it or not, therefore you will always be together.
You promise her you
will always, reward her for loving you perfectly, or encourage her to continue
loving you perfectly, whether she deserves it or not, therefore you will always be together.
Son 7:1 …the joints
of thy thighs [are] like jewels, the work of the hands of a cunning workman.
Son 5:15 His legs
[are as] pillars of marble, set upon sockets of fine gold: his countenance [is]
as Lebanon, excellent as the cedars.
Then you set a token
in place that is the physical sensation of the covenant to remind you of the
covenant every time you renew your covenant. You not only get to know you are loved, but feel the love.
You make her feel you
will always, reward her for being good, or encourage her to continue being
good, whether she deserves it or not, therefore you will always be together.
You make her feel you
will always reward her for loving you perfectly, or encourage her to continue
loving you perfectly, whether she deserves it or not, therefore you will always be together.
To remind you to: -
always show her grace to stay bonded together as one flesh, and to always be
bonded together as one flesh; to always show her ability to love you grace, to
keep you together forever and to have your close bond forever.
You will give her
your seed and you shall start a family: She will take your seed and you will
start a family. The trust is there: you can be a family. Make her feel you
trust her; she can take your seed and start a family. She can make you feel she
trust you; you can give her your seed and you will start a family.
Complete Love of: - Can’t
stand to be apart; and to be together forever.
GOD has an
unconditional love of us: - Can’t stand to be apart; and to be together
forever.
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