SEX AS DEFINED BIBLICALLY FOR A TEMPLATE, TO LEARN FROM AND TO MATURE IN LIFE. AND LEARN HOW TO LOVE TO BOND.
MALE PERSPECTIVE
Son 7:1 How beautiful are thy feet with shoes, O prince's daughter!
When looking at the nature of the male perspective of sex. It’s proactive. He changes everything around him to suit his plan. He takes a look at the situation and where he wants to reach. He then figures out how to get there.
In loving to bond, it’s a relationship cycle, where you start is where you finish, as the cycle comes full circle. One then starts with her shoes and her feet. This is the difference between work and rest, and her working from a state of rest in him. Wearing shoes means to work and have others have rest in you. And to do so with her beauty and grace. Taking of her shoes is to enter his rest.
Son 7:1 …the joints of thy thighs [are] like jewels, the work of the hands of a cunning workman.
You seek to establish a covenant with her because you cannot stand to be apart, and want to be together forever.
There are two parts in making a covenant to seal your bond and relationship. The first part deals with your promise to always show her grace, and to always show her ability to love you grace, therefore you will always be together.
The next part is setting a token, the physical sensation of the promise. Which will be felt and observed, to remind you of your covenant, every time you renew your covenant. To be communicated and felt as often as either one of you need to be healed and your relationship renewed. Not demanding sympathy or compliance to rape, but the sacrifice of charity.
You make her feel you will always reward her for being good and encourage her to continue being good whether she deserves it or not, therefore you will always be together, through penetrating and thrusting against her birth canal with your penis. And make her feel you will always reward her for loving you perfectly and encourage her to continue loving you perfectly, whether she deserves it or not, therefore you will always be together, through penetrating and thrusting against her birth canal, with your penis. Make her feel what you feel through penetrating and thrusting against her birth canal.
Son 7:2 Thy navel [is like] a round goblet, [which] wanteth not liquor: thy belly [is like] an heap of wheat set about with lilies.
A woman’s belly and navel are communication points to make her feel how excited you are of how good her state/ how sexy she is, with caresses and kisses. To make her feel you are excited about the beauty of her form and poise, and general physical fitness. How proud you are of her good state.
Son 7:3 Thy two breasts [are] like two young roes [that are] twins.
Her breasts are symbolically and functionally the unique way she loves. It is a communication point to make her feel you love the way she loves you. Here you can make her feel how you feel about the way she loves you, through kisses and caresses.
She can embrace you tightly against her breast to comfort and strengthen you. She can use her breast (non-sexually) to quell your spirit, to relax you and change your mood.
Son 7:4 Thy neck [is] as a tower of ivory; thine eyes [like] the fishpools in Heshbon, by the gate of Bathrabbim: thy nose [is] as the tower of Lebanon which looketh toward Damascus.
The neck is a communication point to make her feel you love the way she generally thinks, and love the way she loves you with the way she generally thinks and want to claim her, with a stroke. You can make her feel you love the way she generally thinks, and love how she loves you with the way she generally thinks, and desire to claim her with a kiss. You can make her feel you love the way she generally thinks, and love how she loves you with the way she generally thinks, and claim her with a bite. She can make you feel you if she hears some thought from you that do not appeal to her; she can communicate grace, even playfully, through a bite. Meaning despite your thoughts, she is making you feel she is showing the way you generally think grace, and showing the way you love her with the way you generally think grace, and claim you,
Her eyes are a communication point for to make her feel the state of her emotions.
Her nose makes you feel her emotions, and her unique sent, through her pheromones produced. Helping you know her how she feels and how she tastes (her unique scent smelled by your nose), when you kiss her. The human tongue can taste sweet, salt, sour and bitter. It is your nose that tell you what food taste like. This goes for kissing her as well. The scent of her nose determines what her lips and tongue taste like.
Son 7:5 Thine head upon thee [is] like Carmel, and the hair of thine head like purple; the king [is] held in the galleries.
When you kiss you will know if you love each other and can bond. And she will allow you to love her to bond together as one flesh.
Son 7:6 How fair and how pleasant art thou, O love, for delights!
Son 7:7 This thy stature is like to a palm tree, and thy breasts to clusters [of grapes].
Son 7:8 I said, I will go up to the palm tree, I will take hold of the boughs thereof: now also thy breasts shall be as clusters of the vine, and the smell of thy nose like apples;
Her breast is communication points for the unique way she loves.
Son 7:9 And the roof of thy mouth like the best wine for my beloved, that goeth [down] sweetly, causing the lips of those that are asleep to speak.
Kissing the roof of her mouth communicates your love of each other, and your wants to start to bond together as one flesh. When she inserts her tongue, this is for communicating she loves the way you love her and wants to start to bond together as one flesh.
FEMALE PERSPECTIVE
She is reactive and goes with the flow reacting to things as they come. Her bonding life steers the same way.
Son 5:10 My beloved is white and ruddy, the chiefest among ten thousand.
She remembers she completely loves him and can bond as one flesh. She completely loves the way he loves and can bond as one flesh.
Son 5:11 His head is as the most fine gold, his locks are bushy, and black as a raven.
They start loving each other. She comforts him, by holding his head against her bosom, running her hands through his hair, caressing the top of his head.
Holding his head against her breast deals with stress in each other, and comforts them both. Her breast can be used non-sexually to quell his spirit, strengthen him, and encourage him to a new direction. Even to the point he is comforted to be encouraged. Better than beer, wine or hypnotic suggestions can.
She is proud of how he loves her, and comforts him to make him love better. Being comforted and sustained by her beauty and delightfulness, and strengthened through embracing.
She can communicate how she feels about his thoughts, and the way he thinks as he plans to love, through stroking and caressing, even communicating grace.
Son 5:12 His eyes are as the eyes of doves by the rivers of waters, washed with milk, and fitly set.
This is the same as previously mentioned.
Son 5:13 His cheeks are as a bed of spices, as sweet flowers: his lips like lilies, dropping sweet smelling myrrh.
Cheeks are a communication point for accepting you in her family and reestablishing that bond.
Son 5:14 His hands are as gold rings set with the beryl: his belly is as bright ivory overlaid with sapphires.
His hands are appreciated as his communicating tools. She replenishes and subdues him to make him communicate what he feels to her.
His belly and navel are the same as for her.
Son 5:15 His legs are as pillars of marble, set upon sockets of fine gold: his countenance is as Lebanon, excellent as the cedars.
Here also she appreciates his covenant he makes with her to be together forever, and the token of their covenant. She communicates that to him. And also agrees on her part of their covenant with each other. Here She make him feel she will always reward him for being good, and encourage him to continue being good, whether he deserves it or not, therefore they will always be together, through penetrating and thrusting against her birth canal with his penis. Here also she makes him feel she will always reward him for loving her perfectly, and encourage him to continue loving her perfectly, whether he deserves it or not, therefore they will always be together, through penetrating and thrusting against her birth canal with his penis. Make each other feel the physical sensation of their covenants with each other through penetrating and thrusting against her birth canal with his penis.
Son 5:16 His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem.
She makes him feel, she appreciates the way he loves, that he made her feel; the bond they share; and the company the keep with each other. She continues enjoying the dynamics of the relationship. Entering into his rest and joyfulness.
MORE COMMUNICATION POINTS FOR INTIMACY AND COVENANTS.
THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOD AND EVIL: AWAITING FINAL RESTORATION
Make love work: Grace and reapplying the right type of love, is healing and restoring. Making you the person you want to be. The person GOD wants you to be. And whom your spouse can be proud of. To enter into each other’s rest, with rejoicing in each other’s love, you have experienced.
Son 2:6 His left hand is under my head, and his right hand doth embrace me.
A communication point for trust, and with a kiss and embrace, to start to love to bond together as one flesh.
Son 1:3 Because of the savour of thy good ointments thy name is as ointment poured forth, therefore do the virgins love thee.
Pheromones adjust with our feelings and reflect our identity as well as mood.
Son 1:12 While the king sitteth at his table, my spikenard sendeth forth the smell thereof.
Breasts with clothes; -
You make her feel you are happy with how she prepares herself to love you. Her Scent given off in the right mood, by the glands in her bosom. Communicates to you and everyone else, especially when sharing a meal together. Bringing everyone to share her moods and join with her in loving to bond as a family. She reacts to your love and sends out her scent to change all to her mood.
Breasts without clothes: -
Licking underneath nipple is a communication point for making her feel you desire her comfort and sustaining. Also pulling her nipple with your teeth can communicate your desire for, and you are taking, her comfort and sustaining. Sucking her nipples can make her feel you desire her comfort and sustaining; therefore, you will be together forever. This can be interpreted as a false covenant. It may be a good feeling you enjoy. But not to have as a foundation for a good relationship and couple life. Collar bone is for communicating you desire her love and want to take her love.
Wrist is a communication point for making her feel you like her and want to be with her.
Sucking her fingers can be used to make her feel you treasure her love. Biting her fingers to make her feel you are taking her love.
Her Hand, to make her feel you love how she takes care of you and want to be with her. Make her feel you treasure her capacity to love and want to be with her.
Forearms are communication points for making her feel you trust her capacity to love. Elbow, to make her feel you love her capacity to love. Upper arm is for making her feel you relay on her love.
Holding hands and caressing hands, for establishing are reassuring relationships.
Top of head is a communication point for making her feel you love how she thinks, and how she loves you with her thoughts to bond together as one flesh. Side of head is for making her feel you are proud of her thoughts and how she loves you with them.
How she keeps her hair and her head can be used to make her feel you love her beauty and how she pleases you with her beauty. But also, to make her feel you love the way she loves you, and makes you love her and be her covering. Pulling her hair at her scalp is about communicating she should submit to you. Stroking her hair can make her feel you are proud of her covering. Kissing her temples makes her feel you are proud of her thoughts, and want to be with her. Front of her head is for you make her feel you like how she thinks and want to encourage her. Stroking side of her head makes her feel you treasure her thinking, and want to be with her. It comforts her.
Ears are a communication point for “you want to hear my thoughts”. But Ear Lobe nibbling is making each other feel mow much you want each other. Rubbing her ear lobes make her feel you depend on her thoughts for you to be together.
Her spine is a communication point for you make her feel you love her and want to be with her. Top of spine/back of neck is for making her feel you love her thoughts and want to be together forever.
The back of shoulder can be used to communicate grace or forgiveness. Sides of lower back is for making her feel, you like how she is amazed by you, and get hot for you. Kidney to tail bone can make her feel you love her sexual desires she has of you. Back of shoulder can communicate you love her and want to rely on her little strength.
Feet are communication places about her working hard to take care of you: or her finding rest in you. With Shoes on, is is a communication place to make her feel you love how hard she works for you. Licking toes is to make her feel you like her beauty and delightfulness, and desires her. Biting her toes can make her feel you like her beauty and delightfulness and is claiming her. Sucking on her toes makes her feel you like her beauty and delightfulness and is taking her. You can communicate she is the one who’s beauty and delightfulness pleases you: you are going to take care of her. Her feet with shoes being placed on your chest, communicates she subdues you and takes your love. Without shoes, you should give her rest and take care of her.
Feet resting on your penis communicates, she is the one who controls who you love, whom you make feel the fun and excitement of sexual intimacy. Her feet stroking your penis can make you feel she is excited about the way you make her feel the fun and excitement of sexual intimacy and craves it. Toes tickling your penis can make you feel she craves the way you make her feel the fun and excitement of sexual intimacy. Stimulating the underside of your penis with the ball or heel of her feet, can communicate she is the one who controls your orgasms. If you submit to her, she will give you orgasms, therefore you will always be together. A false covenant.
Feet can be used to communicate the false covenants: - “She craves your ability to love her, therefore you will always be together”. “She appreciates, the unique way you love her is exciting, and craves it. if you make her experience the excitement of it, you will be always be together”.“She appreciates, the way you make her feel sexual intimacy is fun and exciting, and craves it. If you make her experience the fun and excitement of sexual intimacy, you will always be together”. “She delights in your ability to love her, she subdues you, takes it, and enjoys it, therefore you will always be together'. “She is the one who gives you orgasms, submit to her and she will give you orgasms, and you will always be together”. He desires her ability to love him, therefore they will always be together”. “He appreciates, the unique way she loves him is pleasurable, and desires it. if she makes him experience the pleasure of it, they will be always be together”.“He appreciates, the way she makes him feel sexual intimacy is comforting and pleasurable, and desires it. If she makes him experience the comfort and pleasure of sexual intimacy, they will always be together”. Or “He treasures her ability to love him, he subdues her, takes it, and enjoys it, therefore they will always be together”.
Men are fun to be loved by, and they get pleasure from it, and this seals their relationship. She may feel “If she enjoys his love, she can make him feel like a man, by her treasuring and delighting in his love, seeing he enjoy the experience of loving her, and the pleasure of being loved by her, and his love treasured and delighted by her, sexually arousing him by it, and they will have a good relationship”. And the false covenants, “He desires making her experience excitement from the unique way he loves. If she receives the excitement he gives her from the unique way he loves, from him. He will feel successful and accomplished, and feel needed and wanted, therefore they will always be together”. Simply, “He desires making her experience excitement from the unique way he loves. If she receives that from him, they will always be together”.“He desires making her experience fun and excitement from sexual intimacy. If she receives the fun and excitement he gives her from sexual intimacy, from him. He will feel successful and accomplished, and feel needed and wanted, therefore they will always be together”. Simply, “He is desires making her experience excitement (sexual excitement). If she receives that from him, they will always be together”. Or, “He is desires making her experience fun and excitement from sexual intimacy. If she receives that from him, they will always be together”. He can also project another covenant " He is desirous, or excited, to take care of her, if she receives it, they will always be together". This is in reply to her craving for a false covenant. She wants him to love her with his stability and strength. “She craves experiencing excitement. She craves him serving her with exciting touch. If he loves her and makes her experience excitement, they will always be together”. Or, She wants him to love her with his exciting way of loving her. “She craves experiencing excitement from the unique way he loves. She craves him serving her with his exciting love. If he loves her and makes her feel the excitement of the unique way he loves, they will always be together”. Or, She wants him to make her feel his stable and strong touch. “She craves experiencing fun and excitement from sexual intimacy. She craves him serving her with exciting sexual touch. If he loves her and makes her feel fun and exciting sexual intimacy, they will always be together”. She enjoys his love, convincing herself, “Everything is OK, because he is stable and strong. Knowing that his stability and strength is fun and exciting to experience. Receiving it invigorates her. And understanding it is him loving her. It reassures her. She wants him to love her with his stability and strength. She craves him serving her with exciting strength. She exercises dominion over his love, until she is fulfilled with the victory of conquering his fun love, and the triumph of using his exciting love for her. She claims his love, reassuring her if he loves her and makes her feel the excitement of the unique way he loves, they will always be together.
Women are pleasurable to be loved by, and they get excitement from it. He may feel “If he enjoys her love, he can make her feel like a woman, by him treasuring and delighting in her love, seeing she enjoy the experience of loving him, and the excitement of being loved by him, and her love treasured and delighted by him, sexually arousing her by it, and they will have a good relationship”. And the false covenants, “She craves making him experience pleasure from the unique way she loves. If he receives the pleasure she gives him from the unique way she loves, from her. She will feel successful and accomplished, and feel needed and wanted, therefore they will always be together”. Simply, “She craves making him experience pleasure from the unique way she loves. If he receives that from her, they will always be together”.“She craves making him experience comfort and pleasure from sexual intimacy. If he receives the comfort and pleasure she gives him from sexual intimacy, from her. She will feel successful and accomplished, and feel needed and wanted, therefore they will always be together”. Simply, “She craves making him experience pleasure (sexual pleasure). If he receives that from her, they will always be together”. Or, “She craves making him experience comfort and pleasure from sexual intimacy. If he receives that from her, they will always be together”. She
can also project another covenant " She craves, or is excited, to take
care of him, if he receives it, they will always be together". This is in reply to him desiring a false covenant. He wants her to love him with her beauty and delightfulness.“He desires experiencing pleasure. He desires her serving him with pleasurable touch. If she loves him and makes him experience pleasure, they will always be together”. Or, He wants her to love him with her pleasurable way of loving him. “He desires experiencing pleasure from the unique way she loves. He desires her serving him with her pleasuring love. If she loves him and makes him feel the pleasure of the unique way she loves, they will always be together”. Or, He wants her to make him feel her beautiful and delightful touch.“He desires experiencing comfort and pleasure from sexual intimacy. He desires her serving him with pleasurable sexual touch. If she loves him and makes him feel comforting and pleasuring sexual intimacy, they will always be together”. He enjoys her love, convincing himself, “Everything is OK, because she is beautiful and delightful. Knowing that her beauty and delightfulness is sustaining and pleasurable to experience. Receiving it sustains him. And understanding it is her loving him. It supports him. He wants her to love him with her beauty and delightfulness. He desires her serving him with pleasurable delightfulness. He exercises dominion over her love, until he is overcome with the victory of conquering her sustaining love, and the triumph of using her pleasuring love for him. He claims her love, reassuring him if she loves him and makes him feel the pleasure of the unique way she loves, they will always be together.
They seek control because of their insecurities. If he serves her and gives her fun and excitement, and she submits and enthusiastically take it, she will feel gratified and enjoy it, therefore they will always be together. If she serves him and gives him comfort and pleasure, and he relaxes and enthusiastically take it, he will feel gratified and enjoy it, therefore they will always be together. Both him and her may fall for false relationships and their respective false covenants. Seeking to feel needed, assured someone will always be there to take care of their needs, feel happy with having someone care for them, since they made their partner ecstatically full of joy of their ability to love. Therefore he wants a covenant where she craves his love, therefore they will always be together, and she treasures him and serves him, therefore they will always be together. She may want a covenant where he desires her love, therefore they will always be together, and he treasures her and serves her, therefore they will always be together.Here is another example of entering into a false covenant, coming from inner battles with self confidence and misunderstanding ones value in a covenanted, opposite type, relationship and bond: - If he gives her fun and excitement, it will fulfill her cravings for fun and excitement, she will want the fun and excitement he can give her, therefore they will always be together. If she gives him comfort and pleasure, it will fulfill his desires for comfort and pleasure, he will want the comfort and pleasure she can give him, therefore they will always be together. The False Covenants in one's life are all based on conditional and controlling love, which are based on protecting from fears and insecurities, for example: - It I love them, they will want to be with me, they love me back, therefore we will always be together. Real covenants are based on complete or unconditional love, where they love you and want to build and have good bonds and relationships, with amazing life and togetherness, with wonderful experiences and adventures with you and them.
Having a friendship closer then a brother, or a friendship closer than a sister, and you can trust her or him to be a family, is a more fulfilling and rewarding relationship. And an expression of grace, so you can be a friend closer then a brother or sister and be a family, is a true covenant, one can rest in. There is safety, freedom, and charity in friendship. Friendship enjoys someone’s love, without any condition, or bondage applied, or demands of control and subjection. Friendship is always proud of, and treasures, someones capacity to love, with out demand, or regret, or making one a 'emotional hostage' to each other, and such physical and emotional slavery.
Ankles are a place to communicate, you love how she makes you feel the comfort and pleasure of intimacy, and desire her. Calves are places you can make her feel you love how hard she works, and will take care of her. Back of knee can make her feel you love her strength, and want to be together. The upper leg and inside of thigh are communication points to make her feel you to rely on her strength. Inside her thigh can make her feel you rely on her strength to give you the comfort and pleasure of intimacy. Hips are for making her feel you love how she could bear you children.
Buttocks can be used to communicate either you do not like what someone has done, or you are excited about the way she loves you. How proud you are of her ability to love. Spanking makes her feel you are excited about the way she loves you. Patting communicates excitement and about what she has done. Stroking is for making her feel you are excited about the way she loves you. Circular caressing communicates you are excited and anticipate, the way she loves you. Palm caressing can make her feel you are excited about the way she loves you and want it now. Biting communicates you are excited about the way she loves you and you desire it. Grabbing can make her feel you are excited about the way she loves you and demand it.
Whole body stroke and communicates you love her sensualness.
General licking can make her feel you are enthralled with her beauty and desire it.
Eating food on her communicates you desire the way she comforts and sustains you and is taking it.
When she has sex, she presents a map of the various communications points, which reflect how she is feeling, and the love she needs. These points being more sensitive than normal, and sequentially presented as she needs them to be.
Nudity is about beauty and freedom. You will always be a friend to the part she is sharing with you. You will always be a friend, to that part of the way she loves, she is sharing with you. You will always be a friend to her totally naked state. It is private and nothing to be ashamed of; and all of it good; and beautiful; and delightful. She will always be enjoyable to you, and delightful. So, she can be free around you.
When she awakes in the morning she may need to be hugged and strengthen and energized. In the evening she may want to have fun and excitement. Other times she may want to be romantic and magical, or relaxed and pampered. At times she may want to be passionate and vigorous. All these emotions must be communicated to her as she engages in sexual intimacy, at these different times.
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