Bonding

LOVING TO OVERCOME DIFFICULTY AND ACCOMPLISH GOOD

In order to love someone perfectly in any situation, one must look at the situation, and find out how that person needs to be loved in that situation. The most important question to ask is “What is the nature of the love and bonding here?” After asking this, we look at what you should do.

Here you should see that she might need help in overcoming difficulties in her situation. Also, one might consider that with more investment she would enjoy life more. Therefore you see that to love her perfectly one has to: - love her to overcome some difficulty in her life; and then further that to accomplish some good in her life; to make her enjoy life to the fullest; to bond together according to how much you love her.

In the case communicating love of someone or something. You communicate you respect someone or something, and you communicate you believe someone or something is good. And you bond together, according to the knowledge you share, and the love received, and the trust developed.

BONDING

You bond to someone when you have a certain love of her, and you love her accordingly. There are two types of bonding: - one flesh bonding (polar opposite or ionic), and same type bonding (polar similar or covalent). You can bond according to your love of someone. You are attracted by what you like that is similar, and what you love that is opposite. You like the things that are like you and you are attracted to things that are opposite.

When you bond to her - you would have had to share knowledge of yourself and had been loved by her; or, you would have received knowledge of her and would have loved her accordingly. When you share knowledge of yourself with her or she shares knowledge of herself with you, and you love each other. A bond is formed between you. Your ability to bond to is determined by your ability to love the knowledge you share. Here you bond closer as you realize how much you love each other and share knowledge you or her trust will be loved.

When you begin to share intimate knowledge of yourselves you may have noticed you cannot share that bond with others: your bond with that someone is getting more and more exclusive. The reason for this is that you can only bond with a certain amount of people in a particular bonding area, in your own area of bonding. The closer you get into a person’s area of bonding or her into yours, the less people you will be able to share that bond with. Until you reach the point where you find there is only one person you could bond to in your most intimate bonding area: Your one flesh-bonding partner. The person you have a complete love of, and who has a complete love of you.

(There is a difference between unconditional love of and complete love of. The former concerns with grace, while the latter concerns with how much you love what is shared with you. You show unconditional love when you show complete grace (to be discussed later). You show complete love of when you actually love everything that is shared with you. Enough differences and similarities for complete love of: – potential for polar opposite bonding.)

The next point one should look at is one’s ability to experience same type and opposite type bonding. To bond together in same type bonding, you share knowledge of each other that are the same about each other. When you love that knowledge, you would have bonded such and would have formed a weak same type bond. To bond closer and have a stronger bond: - You would have to share more knowledge of yourselves that are the same about each other; or you would have to share knowledge of yourselves that are opposite in nature to each other.

When one wants to bond as one flesh. One then would have to share knowledge you have that is opposite to each other’s nature and be able to love that knowledge. When you share knowledge that is opposite to each other and love that knowledge. You should notice you would meet a need in each other that would not have been met by anyone who shares only love that is the same as them. You should also notice:- you are bonded much closer, than when you shared knowledge of each other that was the same of each other; that your ability to love anyone in that area in your life, you shared with each other, is more complete. If you loved each other completely in that area of bonding, you would form a strong opposite type bond.

Further Bonding.

You may apply these principles in every situation you meet, as all things are made from and obey these principles. Atoms, molecules, cells and all flesh follow and exist through a combination of both same type and opposite type bonding.

Atoms contain protons, electrons and neutrons. Protons are positive, electrons are negative, and neutrons are neutral. Anything neutral possesses an equal amount of opposite components that makes up it. A proton bonds to an electron and forms a neutron. Also, all these subatomic particles effect a same type bond, and consequently a same type attraction, on others like them.

The electrons and the protons effect an opposite bond a consequently an opposite type attraction on each other. In their bonding area, they can bond to form neutrons, or can enter into a relationship with the electron orbiting the proton in the nucleus. They then form a weaker bond, but keep their separate identities and make the atom or molecule they form neutral.

These subatomic particles are made up of other smaller particles, and these also are made up of smaller particles/waves called photons. These photons are X-rays, like light, but smaller in wavelength. X-rays and light are electromagnetic waves. These electromagnetic waves are used to make everything we know in our world. They are particles/waves because they are energy contained in tiny waves and act as both particles and waves. Waves are how you bond and contain energy so you can use it to interact and manipulate matter in our world. These can be bonded together to form atoms, and then everything we know.

The resultant effect of the electromagnetic waves ability to bond in same type bonding and exert a same type attraction on each other is visible as the effects of gravity. Gravity bends light rays. Their ability to bond in one flesh bonding is shown by, they are already neutral; they combine to form negative and positive subatomic particles; and with both same type bonding and attraction, and one flesh bonding and attraction, make up all the matter in our universe.

Seeing that both positive and negative subatomic particles are derived from these X-rays, and that they are neutral. Then it is safe to assume that they are themselves made up positive and negative energy, and that they are the result of polar opposite bonding.

Out of the different bonding possibilities, the spirit world and our three-dimensional world exist. Our universe is really an immensely big spirit world, made the way it appears there because of GOD; and our 3-dimensional world, made up of energy in the form of electromagnetic waves, that HE created for HIM. Hence our spirit and our body can bond and communicate together. We can bond and communicate with creatures of the spirit world especially GOD, because of this. We can also communicate with our one flesh bonded partners because of this. A soul tie bond enabled spirit to spirit communication.

A couple bonding together forms a new person. The original persons are partly there, but each possesses each other - when they are properly bonded. The original persons now bonded forming a new person. They are one person in two bodies. They are able to love perfectly, as they are well loved by each other and love each other well, covering each other needs, and filling the gap when it comes to loving someone else. They are now fulfilled and complete when they become a couple. Even when separated, one will be able to represent both in loving somebody, because each one will be the new person. As one new person they are able to love much better than if they were two separate persons working together.

Because all things, both in our world and the spirit world, obey these bonding principles. When trying to understand the world around us. Instead of asking who, what, when, how and why? Ask, “What is the love and bonding here?” You may reach a better understanding of things when looking at them from this perspective.

When light impacts someone, it is altered by their makeup and reaches an observer. Here the observer appreciates what he or she sees of someone, by how the light has changed, and what they have faith to see about them (Colours, shades, reflections, and glares). Similarly, a person will only see the relationships there are accustomed to. He or she sees themselves at first in their observation - what they like, and what they are attracted to. Only when a person chooses to love someone concerning their capacity to love, will they see more.

Since you love to bond, you see love. What you like (what is designed to love like you), and what you are attracted to (what loves opposite to you). When you sense what you like or love, it has entered your bonding area. When you love, you bond together, and the more you are now able to bond. According to what you share, you will bond in stages. Likewise, when light bonds, they detect the electromagnetic waves in what they are attracted to. How they share themselves and what they are attracted to, determines their bonding potential with that object.

When light is altered and comes to you. You see it after it has bonded to something, and you can tell what you have seen by how they bonded. With a person you see the effects of love and how they bonded with the person who loved them. That is how you learn of your environment. You see the effects of bonding, according to what things bond with them, and this is the information you use to tell yourself about the nature of what you are observing.

X-rays and light are energy in a one flesh bond. It changes frequency when the object it is reflected from is from is moving. When reflected from an object that is moving away from you, light gets stretched out. And when reflected from an object moving towards you, it is compressed. Longer ones have less energy and the shorter ones have more energy. Energy cannot be destroyed but is exchanged between the electromagnetic waves and what it collided with. Electromagnetic waves changes frequency when it collides with something. Or, it bonds with matter, and is now part of it. Bonding the energy of electromagnetic waves and the energy contained in matter changes the frequency of light; the state of the energy and the position of the orbits, of electrons around an atom; and the vibrations of the atoms themselves.

Everything here in this universe including you is bonded energy.

How you bond your energy can make or break your future.

When something makes and breaks weak bonds. It moves from one object to another. This provides motion. A continuous motion providing a lot of possibilities within the limits of the objects it can bond with. Strong bonds anchor you to a place, and the making and breaking of week bonds provide motion. You get matter and these effects when you bond energy.

You love knowledge, to produce bonds and motion. Where you were - Look at the bonds you have broken or have made. Where you are going - look for opportunities to break weak bonds, renew old weak bonds or make new weak bonds.

The reason there is a sense of chaos when looking at life in general is the fact many things have close bonds with freedom to form many far bonds, multiple times. And move around consequently by having many far bonds multiple times until opportunity to make close bonds is observed. This is not chaos but if fact random continuous motion with the possibility to find the right bonding partners.

Your state is as a result of everyone’s ability to love you, and your ability to love their ability to love you. To bond together according to how you can bond.

The Function of your state: You loving someone perfectly to bond together. Designed solely to love to bond – you are good. Only loving to bond – you reached holiness. You are defined by the love you receive and functional by your ability to love. You are the sum total of all your relationships. This is your limits with your hope, to be able to enjoy good relationships and bonds, whether weak bonds or strong bonds.

To achieve life, you bond together. You establish a covenant to seal your bond and make your bond last forever. Death is the breaking of bonds.

Repeated bonding with same and opposite type bonds many times all over the universe in the face of infinite space and infinite time means expected assurance of a friend. GOD’S plan for HIMSELF and you.