There is a difference between permissions in a relationship.

 No one needs to be forced to receive love, or give love. Nobody has a right to force any one to be their friend.

However if she is in a negative mood, she will wrestle with her logical mind over what she wants to do to love someone, but not being in the mood to love someone. Her ability to focus, be creative, anticipate, adapt and such, will be hindered.
She may be even angry with her spouse, if he has gotten himself to a good mood, and she is can’t get herself to be in a good mood.
She may need help to “Work through it” or / and need hope, to be instilled in her of, “We will overcome it as a family together” and such. Then she she will be a good mode to love how she want to love someone.

She may want him to “Subdue her and love her with the purpose to drive all her negative moods away” Here, this is fun for her, as this feel dangerous and exciting - Being subdued and loved, and/or being subdued and have hm ravish her ability to love him till she is exhausted and drained; and he is comforted and quelled. 

On a similar note “She will love a man who can make her laugh”
Because she accepts and enters into a relationship with him, she then have trust and expectations, for her needs, anytime she needs some one to help her be in a good mood.

What is adventure for women is different from what is adventure for men.

Concerning Sexuality and, love and bonding -  

What is adventure for women is different from what is adventure for men.

What if fun for men is fun for women.

Whet is pleasurable for women is pleasurable for men 

Faith is not without sight!

 Faith is not without sight: it sees Love.

Faith is invested and grows in you by the Love you receive and show. Hence that is how you grow faith. By receiving and showing Love.

 Without Love, one believes in Hate, Lust and Fear. 

Receiving vs Giving

 Being Pampered can create Happy Contentment: but exercising one's capacity to love brings Joy.

 

A family that plays tgether: stays together.

Men bond by working or playing together: Women bond by talking. Should your sexual intimacy include creative play and conversations. Yes, you should plan creative play and conversations. As what you train for: you will be bonded and ready for as a team.

It starts of as adventure, until it conditions you both, becoming a new condition of your relationship.

 When it comes to women performing oral intercourse with her husband. It is about bring a source of her capacity to love, (her lips she uses to kiss). Into communication with a source of his capacity to love, (his penis he uses to have intercourse). Thus it is about treating him special for an impressive communication of his capacity to love. 
However it can carry from ‘sexual arousal feelings’ to ‘orgasm peaking and plateau’ feelings. Making this, what started out as a communication of intimacy, into the making of a false covenant.  Here she writes a new path for him achieving orgasms, based on her rewarding him with pleasure, of her treating him special, in response to how impressive he takes care of her. And that is why he likes her and wants to be together as a couple. 

Opposites needed for optimal Bonding, including Sexual Bonding.

Men’s capacity to love brings fun and excitement.
Women’s capacity to love brings comfort and pleasure.

A woman should create comforting and pleasurable adventures in her relationship lifestyle. This encompasses sexual communications, intercourse, and bonding.

A man would not get the most development by learning to give his wife pleasurable experiences. It is better for him to learn to receive his wife love and affection, and the comforting and pleasurable adventures she offers.

Men should create fun and exciting adventures in his relationship lifestyle. Including sexual communications, intercourse, and bonding.