If you can't afford mistakes, you can't afford success.

 If you can't survive mistakes you will make, you won't put yourself in position for success.

Desire vs Cravings

 Men have sexual desires / Women have sexual cravings. Coming from emptiness, but all we really want is to be loved.

Sacrificing gives its own success.

Sacrificing into someones life, till they turn around and make you forget the pain of the sacrifices, makes it own rewards.

A ‘Good Technique’ cannot replace listening, feeling, and learning to love.

Some teach to have sex, one must master the giving of pleasure. And focus on the mastery of techniques, and guides to receive pleasure, with out acknowledging LOVE. They do not teach to master sex, it is rather about knowledge, applying love to knowledge, communicating love through touch, and forming bonds with each other.

Respecting each other's ability to love

Sometimes one is craving for someone that is safe to love, and one is proud to love, (to be a family). But respecting each other’s ability to love, truly being a friend to someone's ability to love, makes you a family. Have faith love can grow.

Men are fun to be loved by, and they get pleasure from it, vs, Women are pleasurable to be loved by, and they get excitement from it.

Men are fun to be loved by, and they get pleasure from it. She may feel “If she enjoys his love, he will be sexually aroused by it, and they will have a good relationship”. And the false covenant, “She can make him feel like a man, if she enjoys his love, sexually arousing him by her treasuring and delighting in his love, seeing, he enjoy the experience of loving her, and the pleasure of being love by her and his love treasured and delighted by her, they will be together forever”.
 

Women are pleasurable to be loved by, and they get excitement from it. He may feel “If he enjoys her love, she will be sexually aroused by it, and they will have a good relationship”. And the false covenant, “He can make her feel like a woman, if he enjoys her love, sexually arousing her by him treasuring and delighting in her love, seeing, she enjoy the experience of loving him, and the excitement of being loved by him and her love treasured and delighted by him, they will be together forever”.
 

Insecurities may make one fall for the false covenants ‘She desires my love, therefore we will be together forever’, or ‘He treasures and delights in my ability to love him, therefore we will be together forever’. Having a friendship closer then a brother, or a friendship closer than a sister, and you can trust her or him to be a family, is a more fulfilling and rewarding relationship. And an expression of grace, so you can be a friend closer then a brother or sister and be a family, is a true covenant, one can rest in. There is safety, freedom, and charity in friendship.

Did You Know?

Men’s hearts are after their spouse: Women’s hearts are after having a good relationship with their spouse.

Another appreciable difference is - When storing items of interest, men seek out to have a easy to remember logical system. But women identify the value and seek to comfortable put away it, based of how they feel, and feel it shout be placed until needed again. She will remember where she secured it when she experiences how she first felt, when she stored it, and thus find it according to what she remembers of her emotions and the memories they create in her mind and soul. An emotion and physical knowledge memory.