Sometimes religion and strict religious cultures can be denaturing and unholy. Also pornography and such teases with the same carnal mind believing concepts.
There is a tendency to require servitude is arranged, and general marriage principles, brought on by the religious leaders. And people accept this, as it appeases their unbelieving faith in GOD, and allowing HIS love to touch someone, heal their heart, and bring about their healed capacity to love.
Thus they perpetrate this false covenant is :- If he loves her, she will serve him, (she will give him comfort and pleasure), therefore they will always be together. If she loves him, he will serve her, (he will give her fun and excitement), therefore they will always be together. If he serves her (gives her fun and excitement), she will love him, therefore they will always be together. If she serves him (gives him comfort and pleasure), he will love her, therefore they will always be together. He wants to serve her (give her fun and excitement), she trusts him and receives that from him, therefore they will always be together. She wants to serve him (give him comfort and pleasure), he trusts her and receives that from her, therefore they will always be together.
Real friendship, true friendship does not punish!
Real friendship, true friendship does not enslave!
Real friendship, true friendship does not terrorize!