Some people has given up on someone loving then as an opposite sex partner, and coupled with the sexual arousing feeling of, "Everything is for their pleasure/ Everything is for their sexual fun". Experiment, and are sympathetic to, anyone or any thing, which gives them pleasure or sexual fun.
That is why a person must always have hope.
This means JESUS is persistent, determined, love to bring the KINGDOM OF GOD to you
Men face, and become strong/ skilled enough to face, their fears.
Women will comfort someone to the point they are encouraged/ strengthened to out smart their fears.
Domestic violence is because of lack of the latter.
There are parents who are not emotionally connected to their children, such that there are no intimate contact, and thus no training in their children of how to express same sex attraction. Thus when someone enters puberty, and has arousing sexual feelings, coupled with feelings of really close friendship. And there is a desire to express intimate contact. This confusion will have them experiencing feelings of showing intimate contact and sexual feelings together.
Some mothers may link with their children and befriend and discipline them at the same time. This will lead to confusion. Especially with children who are not emotional skilled enough to handle “sexual emotional understanding”. Thus their children will become emotional hostages, as well as sexual hostages, bent on liking what they like and hating what they hate. In their home lives and in their sexual likes and expressions as well. Also some fathers can and do tend to fall in to this trap as well. Making their children sexual hostages.
Oral sex by a female can make someone feel, “She is the one who gives them pleasure (Sexual pleasure), they love her ability to give them pleasure, therefore they will always be together”. Or, “She is the one who gives them the comfort and pleasure of sexual intimacy, they love her ability to give them the comfort and pleasure of sexual intimacy, therefore they will always be together”. Also, someone can use their penis to communicate as a response. They can make her feel, “She is the one who gives them pleasure, they will always be there for her, therefore they will always be together”.
Anal sex is a communication point for making her feel if she submits to them, They will take care of her and They will make everything OK, therefore they will be always be together.
Oral sex by them communicates, “If they give her excitement (Sexual excitement), she loves their ability to give her excitement (sexual excitement), therefore they will be always be together”. Or, “if they give her the fun and excitement of sexual intimacy, she loves their ability to give her the fun and excitement of sexual intimacy, therefore they will always be together”, Also she may believe in the false covenant “They give her excitement (sexual excitement), She will always be there for them/ She will always be there to take care of them/ She will always take care of them, therefore they will always be together.
If you fear Death: Face it,
When you conquer death: You become it,
Every sword needs a sheath: Every man needs a warm Heart,
even though it is not his own,
If you want to overcome Death, jump right in: Just carry a good life line,
After everything is over, and you see desolation encompassing you: The most important thing is healing.
