She enjoys his love, convincing herself, “Everything is OK, because he is stable and strong. Knowing that his stability and strength is fun and exciting to experience. Receiving it invigorates her. And understanding it is him loving her. It reassures her. She wants him to love her with his stability and strength. She craves him serving her with exciting strength. She exercises dominion over his love, until she is fulfilled with the victory of conquering his fun love, and the triumph of using his exciting love for her. She claims his love, reassuring her if he loves her and makes her feel the excitement of the unique way he loves, they will always be together.
He enjoys her love, convincing himself, “Everything is OK, because she is beautiful and delightful. Knowing that her beauty and delightfulness is sustaining and pleasurable to experience. Receiving it sustains him. And understanding it is her loving him. It supports him. He wants her to love him with her beauty and delightfulness. He desires her serving him with pleasurable delightfulness. He exercises dominion over her love, until he is overcome with the victory of conquering her sustaining love, and the triumph of using her pleasuring love for him. He claims her love, reassuring him if she loves him and makes him feel the pleasure of the unique way she loves, they will always be together.
Fear needs control/Love sets you free. To show someones capacity to love grace (i.e. reward them for loving you perfectly and encouraging them to continue loving you perfectly, whether they deserve it or not) to bond together as one flesh. And to be their friend, of their capacity to love and bond to you.
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