20% of women's quest to have sexual intimacy can be based on agreeing to receiving love. They have excellent ability to be tolerant of pain and fun in their day to day activities. This increases when they are worried, or even concerned for someones well being.
80% of women's quest to have sexual intimacy can be based on their need to love someone. and the excitement and joy that comes with effective demonstration on some one receiving their care and attention.
Men are brought up to be tough, thus they will not be inclined to show responses to her use of her beauty and delightful on him. But when he responds, her arousal and peeking emotions increase. As this fills that need within her to experience successful loving some one with her unique capacity to love.
Men are similarly inclined. Women who find sexual intimacy fun and exciting, end up motivating men more to do fun and exciting things in their relationship lifestyles. He will respond to her response, and this will determine the direction he will go, and how creative he will be, in sexual intimacy.
