Men, to be motivated yet balanced

Vigorous and passionate enough to provide stability. 
Strong enough to be gentle.
Dominant enough to be Patient.

Confidence in your "Vigorous and passionate" abilities, used with grace, applied to to a person, makes them experience stability from your capacity to love directed at them.

 Confidence in your "strength" , used with grace, applied to to a person, makes them experience gentleness from your capacity to love, directed at them.

  Confidence in your "Dominant" skills, used with grace, applied to to a person, makes them experience patience from your capacity to love, directed at them.