The 80%/20% ratio of women’s desire for affection and sexual intimacy.

 20% of women's quest to have sexual intimacy can be based on agreeing to receiving love. They have excellent ability to be tolerant of pain and fun in their day to day activities. This increases when they are worried, or even concerned for someones well being.
80% of women's quest to have sexual intimacy can be based on their need to love someone. The excitement and joy that comes with effective demonstration on some one receiving their care and attention. 

 Men are brought up to be tough, thus they will not be inclined to show responses to her use of her beauty and delightful on him. But when he responds, her arousal and peeking emotions increase. As this fills that need within her to experience successful loving some one with her unique capacity to love. 
Men are similarly inclined. Women who find sexual intimacy fun and exciting, end up motivating men more to do fun and exciting things in their relationship lifestyles. He will respond to her response, and this will determine the direction he will go, and how creative he will be, in sexual intimacy.

 

Relationship lifestyles and sexual intimacy requires your best foot forward.

Women give comfort and pleasure and men give fun and excitement.
Men receive comfort and pleasure and women receive fun and excitement.

Intercourse is a pleasurable experience for men and a fun experience for women. 

The rhythms of intercourse will match certain rhythms of music as both are communications coming from emotions.  

It goes to say, women must bring 'comfort and pleasure' activities in their relationship lifestyles. Men must bring 'fun and excitement' activities in their relationship lifestyles.

Women talk to bond, and men work together to bond, and is included in healthy sexual intimacy. 

Grace means their future is more important to you than their past.

 If one considers the purpose and condemnation of the LAW, then one is focused mostly on a person's past. But if one is in love with someone, one is drawn to think and ponder on, what there are going to do and where they  are going to. Their future is more important to you than their past.

HE wont allow you to remain with your distressed ability to love

 HE wont allow you to remain with a distressed ability to love: but HE will  bring you out of sin, and the burdens of sin. Healing your capacity to love. For HIM and for others you have to love. HE is THE WORD OF GOD, that is JESUS, who bore this on HIS Cross.

HIS forgiveness V.S. HIM paying for your sins

Forgiveness does not excuse you from being subject to the LAW 

JESUS CHRIST paying for your sins, delivers you from being in bondage to, and a hostage to the LAW

You can depend on someone's love.

You can depend on someone's love.

That is necessary for a good relationship.

But one should not find oneself in a bondage because of it.

The purpose of this universe is to find GOD a friend - man

 GOD can be a your friend. How? Because HE can.

You can be GOD'S friend. How? Because HE can be your friend